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Compassionate care from the moment loss begins
If you have reached this page because you are grieving, I want to begin by offering my deepest compassion. I’m sending you loving, healing thoughts as you read these words. Whether your loss is recent or long ago, whether it’s clear to others or carried quietly inside, you deserve gentleness and care. You are not alone here.
When loss enters your life, everything changes. The world becomes quieter, heavier, and harder to breathe in. Many counsellors believe grief support should wait six months — but in my heart, and through years of sitting with those in sorrow, I know differently.
Grief doesn’t wait and neither should love, or healing.
What we offer brings strength when everything feels broken. It offers comfort when the world feels too heavy to carry. And gently, it helps the grieving journey unfold with more grace and less loneliness. That’s why we welcome you from the very beginning. Starting early doesn’t erase the pain — but it changes the path. It softens it, and it holds you when nothing else seems to.
Grief is not a problem to be solved, but a process to be honoured.
Here, your grief is witnessed with compassion, clinical understanding, and spiritual depth. Grief takes many forms, including:
✨ Death of a loved one ✨ Sudden or traumatic loss ✨ Anticipatory grief ✨ Identity or role loss ✨ Cultural and ancestral grief ✨ Invisible or unacknowledged loss ✨ The passing of beloved pets and animal companions ✨ The end of important relationships or breakups. Yes — the loss of a pet is grief. Yes — the end of a relationship is grief. Grief simply means:
Something once loved has been lost.
However your grief shows up — it’s valid, and you don’t have to walk through it alone.
The question whispered most often through tears is: “Are they okay?” “Do they know I miss them?” Yes. A thousand times yes. The Angels — and the ones we’ve lost — gather close in our darkest hours. While we ache in their absence, there is sacred beauty in knowing that our loss is also their reunion with those who crossed before, waiting with open arms.
You’re not alone in this. And neither are they.
There is no right way to grieve. No deadline. No neat order of emotions.
Dr. Kübler-Ross introduced the model in her 1969 book On Death and Dying, based on observations of people confronting their own mortality. Over time, the model was widely adapted — often mistakenly — to describe how people should or must grieve after losing someone else.
Reality: Grief is not linear. It moves in waves, loops, spirals, or silence. People may revisit grief during anniversaries, transitions, or major life events — even decades later. Time doesn’t “heal” grief — time creates space for integration and adaptation.
Myth: “Grief follows the 5 stages.” Reality: Grief is fluid and personal. There are no steps.
Myth: “Time heals all wounds.” Reality: Time alone doesn’t heal — connection and meaning-making do.
Myth: “If you’re still grieving, it’s unhealthy.” Reality: There is no expiration date for grief.
Myth: “Only death causes grief.” Reality: Pet loss, breakups, identity shifts, trauma, and cultural loss can all create grief.
Myth: “Closure means moving on.” Reality: Healthy grief includes continuing bonds. Love doesn’t vanish.
Myth: “Grief equals sadness.” Reality: It can also be anger, numbness, relief, brain fog, or deep questioning. Understanding these truths prevents judgment, pressure, and shame — and lets grief unfold naturally.
Most grief is not pathological — it is a natural human response. Grief touches the whole person: Emotional: sadness, guilt, numbness, relief Physical: fatigue, tight chest, sleep changes Cognitive: fog, repetitive thoughts, difficulty concentrating Spiritual: questioning meaning, beliefs, purpose Social: withdrawal or shifting support networks. Good grief support:✔ protects normal grief from being mislabelled as “disordered” ✔ removes pressure to “recover quickly” ✔ honours the full spectrum of human experience
Healing isn’t about erasing grief — it’s about integrating it.
Grief coaching goes beyond talk therapy. It recognises grief as multidimensional — affecting the emotional, somatic, spiritual, and relational aspects of life.
We explore:
✨ Emotional expression ✨ Somatic (body-based) responses ✨ Identity shifts and meaning-making ✨ Rebuilding daily functioning ✨ Spiritual and existential questions ✨ Honouring continuing bonds
Grief coaching does not try to “fix” grief — it supports its natural unfolding.
I once supported a father who lost his teenage daughter to cancer. He did not come for answers — he came because he had nowhere else to turn. He asked, “Is she okay?” I gently asked, “Are you ready to hear from her? ”She came through with warmth, humour, and love — speaking of memories and moments only they shared. He left not because the pain vanished, but because the love remained — and he was no longer alone.
Messages from loved ones, Angels, or guides are offered only when you ask. Emotional safety always comes first. Sometimes the Angels call me to speak — gently, quietly, with purpose. Never to frighten. Always to guide. Even after sessions, I continue working with the Angels on your behalf — asking for peace, strength, and understanding to reach you. Not everyone seeks messages — and that’s okay. Healing also happens through presence, compassion, and witnessing.
Supporting people through grief is profound emotional work — and the healing is real. Clients often leave able to speak of their loved ones with softness instead of agony, and to carry love instead of only pain. A midwife once attended after many urged her to. She left with validation of “another world.” A month later she wrote:
“I haven’t cried since I left you. I can smile when I talk about her. Your service is invaluable.”
Healing does not remove grief — it anchors love.
We aim to be the leading place specialising in:
✨ End-of-life support ✨ Sudden and traumatic loss ✨ Pet loss grief ✨ Relationship and breakup grief ✨ Anticipatory grief ✨ Spiritual grief work
We are trained in grief and trauma.We care deeply — and we will get you through this.We will be your strength when you feel weak. And when you laugh again — we will laugh with you. You will love and laugh again.
The Angels want you to remember:
You are never alone.
They hold your loved ones in their wings, supporting them in their new life. They teach them how to come close when you need them. Close your eyes, soften your breath, and feel with your heart.
Signs may come as:🪶 feathers 🦋 butterflies 🐦 robins 🌬 scents 🎵 songs ✨ touches 🔁 synchronicities
These are not coincidences — they are reminders.
Whether you are newly bereaved or carrying old grief…Whether you seek therapy, coaching, spiritual connection, or quiet support…There is a place for you here. Sending love and healing to all who need support at this time. 💜
When grief feels too heavy to carry alone, we're here to walk beside you. Our therapists offer more than just expertise—they bring warmth, empathy, and a deep understanding of what it means to lose someone you love. Whether your grief is fresh or quietly lingering, we create a safe space where your emotions are honoured, your story is heard, and healing begins.
📞 Call us for a chat on 01977 361405 or call in. No pressure, no judgment—just a compassionate conversation to explore how we can support you through the overwhelming waves of grief.
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